How do you use your days???????
Some in this world are working double time, a good example of this is Turkish people.
Some of them (regarding to information I got from some friends there years ago) are working up to 14-16 hours
without much rights. Who is talking negative about them and how much they care about their families?!
I believe they are caring as their intentions have to be to reach more money and a higher income!
In Sweden, normally we work 100% on 8 hours, 5 days a week (40 hours a week). Many haave families and enjoying the time with them, mainly on the weekends when they are off. We also have people working on the weekends. It can be in hospitals, kiosks,food stores. Thank you to them, so that we can shop.
We also have unemployed people and people in need of to be in the sick of leave. If you are unemployed you have to look for job within a reasonable area at first, but later after some days you have to look everywhere. Sometimes it feels like you have to be a king or proffessor to get the simpliest job here. Suspicious employers, demanding unbelievable things such as you have to have a car to get a job, you have to have cancelled your military, you have to promise not to get any more children, you have to have an interesting privacy. You have to be 1000% healthy.
This is not reasonable. We are humans, not machines.
You also have a group of single people who has got the luck to get help in private to look after their kids, so that they can study to reach high marks, later bullyied of people who cannot reach this levels. So, why? I think it is very normal to reach a higher level if you have more time to work on a thing..and it also depends on how much time and effort you choose to put in.
You have also people who get things faster than others, and that way can find out how to use softwares, machines, and other things. I think we always have to accept the fact (I have experienced that many times myself!) that we have people above us….people who always make things better than we are doing ourselves. We have to cope with that and stop finding problems and bad parts in the creations, just to satisfy ourselves and our (regarding to ourselves)
possible bad works.
Learn to compete with yourself, do not compete with others. I learnt that during my years as a student in different universities. If you always have your glance of what your friends are working with, then you feel yourself less good and automatically you make less good jobs.
To temporary work in a group or compare your job is ok, but do not use that thing as a permanent kind of competition. Ok, you can feel stressed by some single persons, always at the top, but if you find piece within yourself you will relax and not care about that after a while. There will always be people whose intentions are not to deliver to be a celebrity or to be famous on the first hand. They deliver because they like to produce and they are creative humans! Thank the lord for these ones, as we are able to listen through so much good music, and able to view so many animations and good pictures and much more.
Learn to cope with your inner strength and use it to something creative instead of using the power to blacklist others so that you do not have to feel that you have to make a similar thing yourself. ASK the people you are having an envy for and learn from that….just a tip.
Create, listen through, change, ask others for advice if possible – otherwise you can compare yourself a little by often
listening through your different pieces to find mistakes. You can also take a brief view of
others creations, view others pieces, but do not forget to use your own basic plans.
Finally, deliver!
After that, be satisfied with your own job and have a good sleep at night.
Keep on living all my friends,
Sivan